Woman, Our Benefactor as Mother, Beloved Sister, Life Partner and Daughter

There is no doubt that a woman is our benefactor in the form of a mother, our beloved sister, our life partner and daughter - our flesh and blood. Such a great personality who plays different but all important roles in our lives should undoubtly be venerated everywhere and everytime. But respecting women doesn’t mean that they dominate the male community albeit being the integral parts of our society. I am not against women; neither I hate them, nor I want to see them suppressed under the tyranny of some brutes, but I want to make people realize that although they enjoy a healthy respect as far as socio-religious basis are taken into consideration, but still they are different from us and have different role to play in the scheme of things. Further, I want to convey that men and women have different duties to perform for which they can live parallel to each other but neither of the two can dominate the other. There is no question of equality of men and women and the slogan’s supporting the declaration are just absurd to even ponder over; even though none of the two are inferior either,. It is as similar as comparing the two sides of a coin which are equally important but uncomparable. Woman had always been treated with delicacy and tenderness because we were of the opinion the she is weak and soft physically, mentally, socially, psychologically and religiously too. Keeping this picture in mind, we would feel our duty and right to guard her beauty and honour. We used to give them preference in every field as everytime “Ladies First” would come in to our minds. Youngsters used to offer them seats in buses, public places etc. and always esteem their exalted character. But today these thoughts have now besieged into a mere fantasy because of the slogan “Men and women are equal”. Now-a-days a person thinks if women are equal to men in every respect, then why can’t they endure the over load of bus? If they are equal to us in every respect, then why can’t they remain in queue to pay bills etc? And wait for their turns? If they are equal to us in every respect, then why can’t they go out-side and earn for their families? By God all the fuss created today is due to this slogan “men and women are equal”. I simply want to make it clear that women have their own work to do and men are equally bound to perform their own duties; but still both of them interfere into others job.
I want to know as to why women want to vanquish male community even if later are being appointed as guards to look after them. There relation reveals piety, purity and respect as far as social, religious and humanitarian point of view is concerned. I don’t blame women altogether as I am aware of the presence of black sheep in our community, too, but still women being the important elements of our society can play a vital role in the establishment of evil tree environment. They have a tremendous power – power to teach and motivate every section of male community for which they themselves must be sensibly and rightly educated.
”. Just imagine, she is called “Mastoor” – an invaluable thing to be kept hidden. But today woman has degraded herself by exposing her beauty in the market albeit the working woman is permissible but not feasible in these times. I agree “woman is as tender as a flower”, but it is inapplicable today as 98% of females have now become as incisive as thorns. I must say that if you won’t yourselves to be respected, you should first learn to respect yourselves and then hope for the next. Our women are oblivious of both, the consequences of their exhibitionism and the rights she has been granted in every Relegion.
They must protect their modesty and obey their religion strictly only then they could be esteemed in every corner of the world and hereafter.